Although these three girls’ names – Mary, Marcy, and Mercy – are similar, they are distinct names, often (and mistakenly) intermingled. Mingling similarly spelled names is usually a result of misinterpreting seventeenth-century handwriting, which is exacerbated for us today when we do not have access to original records. You ask “What’s the harm?” The following case story shows how old genealogists get older because of indiscreet mingling.
A Mayflower line has long been accepted by the Society that claims descent through Mary Medbury/Medbery, daughter of John Howland descendant Benjamin Medbury and his wife Martha Harris. Mary’s birth is purported to have been 1 March 1787 in Smithfield, Rhode Island. The line claims that Mary married Amasa Irons about 1804. There are no primary records available for either her birth or marriage, and the problem is that Mayflower Families Through Five Generations (published in 2010), which treats Benjamin6 Medbury and his family, states that Mary Medbury, born in 1787, died unmarried in 1813. Her death is documented by her gravestone in the “Medbery lot” in Gloucester, Rhode Island, which reads “In Memory of Mary daughter of Mr. Benjamin Medbery and Martha his wife.”
The source used for the list of Medbury children … does not provide any sources for the nine children listed for Benjamin and Martha.
The gravestone of “Marcy” Irons, wife of Aaron, who died in 1866, gives her full age at death, which calculates to a birth date of 22 March 1784. That, and the absence of any child named Marcy among Benjamin and Martha’s identified children, has been “close enough” to Mary’s birth for everyone not having access to the gravestone to assume they were one and the same. The source used for the list of Medbury children in Mayflower Families is a 1965 typescript of “Medbury-Medbery-Medberry Family,” which does not provide any sources for the nine children listed for Benjamin and Martha. It does properly report that Mary died in 1813, but does not list a child named Marcy. What it does do is identify the seventh child as “dau, b. 1790-1800., m. [blank] son of Asa & Mary (Irons).” I subsequently came across another copy of the manuscript that has been annotated in handwriting changing the entry from “dau.” to “Mercy or Marcy” and “m. Amasa Irons, son of Samuel and Huldah (Colwell) Irons.” Still no sources given.
The obvious key to solving this problem was the probate record for Benjamin and Martha Medbury. As it turns out, the copybook version of Benjamin’s will shows a bequest to his daughter “Mercy” Irons, and the copy of Martha’s will mentions daughter “Marcy” Irons in one place, and daughter “Mary Irons wife of Amasa Irons” in another. All three of these versions of the name were undoubtedly influenced by the transcribers’ interpretation of handwritten documents, but all certainly belong to “Marcy” (Medbury) Irons, wife of Aaron.
Thankfully, rather than having to close an already-accepted lineage (horrors) through “Mary” (Medbury) Irons, I am happy that the lineage is correct with just two changes in Generation 7: Change Mary to Marcy and her birth date from 1787 to 1784.
It only took me a month to figure it out.
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18 thoughts on “What’s in a name?”
This in interesting. I have an ancestor variously referred to as Mary/Mercy/Marcy. I’ve not found any original documents, but it seems that I am going to have to dig deeper. (I’d figured part of the issue was difficult handwriting, but didn’t realize that there could be three different people erroneously confined into one.) Thanks for the heads up!
Janice, it is worth looking into it. May still be transcription variables, but one never knows!
Good work, and another interesting post. Here are a couple of names I’ve found that can be mis-read in early handwriting: Elisha – Elijah. Daniel – David.
Also Lemuel and Samuel.
Yep. L’s and S’s are a pain.
Oh, yes, indeed. David and Daniel are among my peeves, especially if David named a son named Daniel, as happens in my family.
Excellent research and detective work. I love reading stories like this.
Rocky, thank you. Now that it is over, it was fun.
Nicknames of course can be a problem too. Marys, for instance, can be called, May, Molly, Polly or Mamie, among others. Margaret has many nicknames.
I’m also suspicious when secondary sources quote family surnames as middle names for 17th & 18th century forbears. My impression that particularly surnames as middle names for women were rare then and uncommon for men (for instance, only three of the 56 Signers of the Declaration of Independence evidently had middle names).
My impression is that the middle names became fashionable after the Revolution, but I haven’t tested the theory.
Wish you, me or someone, would be able to prove that Constance Snow (ca 1644-45 to 1682) wife of Daniel Doan is really the daughter of Nicolas Snow and Constance Hopkins. This is another family where not all the children were documented.
Well, something to look forward to? If it is solved it is very unlikely to be by me.
I love stories like this. Thanks for sharing!
I have almost completely English ancestry on my mother’s side. One of my ancestors was William Learned (from whom the Bush presidents and other presidents also descend). The main English county I descend from, spelled Hertfordshire, is pronounced in England as “Hartfordshire.” The town we live in celebrates Ebenezer Learned (1728-1801), who was born in and died in Oxford, MA, and was a Brigadier General in the American Continental Army during the War of the American Revolution. However, we have a “Larned” Road in town. In 1902, Charles Larned donated funds to build a library in memory of his mother Clarissa Larned. It is now the Oxford Public Library and her name is memorialized on the Main St. side. So, the name Mercy was likely pronounced Marcy by the early English settlers and the nickname Mary also used, adding to the confusion.
Similar to Derby….pronounced Darby